Welcome to My Love Life Newsletter
In case you don’t already know me, I’m Emily—a mostly white, straight, cis woman. Pretty basic, I know.
I moved to NYC in January 2013 when I was 22. Dating apps were hot, and I was hooked within the year.
I went on a LOT of dates.
In 2015, exhausted from relaying every romantic update to every individual friend, I started a BCC email thread so I could efficiently inform everyone about who I was texting, dating, fucking, and/or crying over.
It’s now 2023, I’m 32, and… I’m still emailing dating updates. If 24-year-old-me heard that, she’d be devastated.
But I’d try to comfort her, reassuring her that all the gut-wrenching twists & turns of this romantic rollercoaster have been worth it. At the very least, her writing has improved (not to mention, her attitude) and it’s given her enough content to write a book-turned-series-turned-musical one day. Plus, something tells me the ride will be over soon.
Updates are as impromptu as life itself, so I can’t promise any regular posting cadence. However, when I do post, I can promise an open window into the heart and mind (and sometimes, bed) of a real-life gal who’s just looking for love. Voyeurs, rejoice!
To preserve a modicum of my privacy, I’ve sequestered the most sensitive and/or salacious content behind a paywall. This newsletter is ultimately for my nearest & dearest, but I’ll also sell the tea to paying customers. (And I couldn’t not price it at $69/year.) If we’re buddies, just reach out and I’ll comp your subscription!
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“Its like a real life and relatable sex and the city with a dose of self love therapy.”
“Love your storytelling, writing and you! ❤️ Also feels very relatable and love getting insight into someone else’s dating journey and how you approach it, think through things, and it’s inspiring to see how you put yourself and your needs first. I just love seeing them pop up in my email like a special surprise treat. 🥰”
“I get SO excited every time I see one of your email updates in my inbox. I truly look forward to them. Your writing is phenomenal and I also feel invested because I love you and want the best for you. You are the millennial version of Carrie Bradshaw and I am here for IT (and you). Xo”
“It's a nice glimpse into another single person's life, entertaining and I enjoy the parts beyond dating where you explore what you need/want in general to define what you need/want in dating”
“Extremely well written AND fun tales of the roller coaster of dating in NYC. Relatable and fascinating”
“I’m absolutely pleading with you to write a book!!!! It would make the NYTimes bestseller list faster than any other book in history. Trust me, I read a lot of books - I know!!!! You always leave me wanting more - similar to my sexual escapades with Fred the bass player!!!!!. Thank you!!! I needed this today!!!!”
“OMG. Forget the book. Your stories should go directly to cable tv. No ratings please. Thank you for allowing me to live vicariously through you!!!!!!”
“I feel like I’m reading something that will become a New York Times best seller or a great HBO show or an Oscar winning movie. I’m also looking forward to the gran finale, the day when this all ends and you find your media naranja. 🍊That day, I will be sad and happy and anxiously awaiting your next project.”